Sit with me if you will for a while, I have something to say. It's been a while since we last talked,and I've been keeping my feelings at bay. I had the words all sorted out, I knew just what to do. But now with you sitting here; I've forgotten all too soon. If you reach deep into my soul, You'll find it ready to be bared. My head is thinking one thing, But my heart is not prepared.

(From my poem "Thoughts Gone Astray" written and © in 1997 by JJ.)

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

The Secret Marriage

From Thursday, June 11, 2009

I have to start off with an apology to everyone. Chris and I have been married for a long time now and haven't been honest about it. Chris came over from the UK March 31 of 2003. We pretty much instantly fell in love and decided to get married because that was the only way to keep him in the country and we wanted to get married at some point. August 26th that same year we got married. The preferred date was October 30 eventually. :D

Anyway, we wanted to have an official wedding for everyone including us but it never happened. We didn't have the money, we got fat, my medical issues, it's just been ongoing. :/ We finally just got tired of lying to everyone so we decided to start telling people a couple of weeks ago on my birthday. So now it's out and you know. I'm sorry to those I haven't been able to tell in person. I'm sorry to those who feel betrayed.

A friend offered the possibility of their back yard for a ceremony so we may have one yet but it hasn't been decided. When we know, you will know. :*)

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